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Money is supposed to give us choices; the freedom to decide where we live, how we provide for our children, and what kind of future we build. However, for too many women, money becomes a tool of control rather than a means of independence. Financial abuse is one of the quietest forms of violence. You won’t see bruises or scars, but you’ll find fear written between the lines of bank statements, hidden credit cards, and years of lost confidence. At The SOFEI Group, we’ve met women who’ve been told, “You don’t need your own account,” or “Let me handle the money, you’ll only mess it up.” Those aren’t just words. They are barriers to freedom, and it is time to break the silence. What Financial Abuse Really Looks Like Financial abuse doesn’t always announce itself loudly. Sometimes, it hides behind love, protection, or the guise of “help.” But the signs are there. You’re not allowed to see the bills or log into the bank account. Your partner keeps you from working or takes your ...

Sitting there, wondering if anyone understands what it's like when your voice feels foreign in your throat. When years of being told you're "too much" or "not enough" have made you doubt everything you once knew about yourself. We see you questioning if you have anything valuable to offer. If you're strong enough to build the life you deserve. If anyone would hire you, trust you, or believe in you, when you can barely believe in yourself. The Truth You Might Have Forgotten Your voice didn’t disappear — it was silenced . Your confidence wasn’t lost — it was dismantled . Your dreams weren’t unrealistic — they were discouraged . And here's the other truth: What broke can be rebuilt. What was silenced can speak again. What diminished can rise. The Playbook of Abusive Systems Abuse, whether from a partner, employer, or institution, works on one principle: make you forget your power so you won't use it. Every insult ...